Written on July 25th, 2008 at 04:07 am by Darren Rowse
How to Make Your Blog More Personal
It has been a while since my last video and in this one I’ll show you the reason why – my son Henri who arrived just a few weeks ago has been taking a lot of my attention of late.
In this video I want to talk about adding a personal touch to your blog and want to introduce you to some of the ideas that I cover in my previous series – Adding a Personal Touch to Your Blog.
I’m not talking about starting a personal blog where you share lots of personal information – what I’m focusing on here is building a blog that connects with people in a more personal way around your niche topic.
Over the last few years of blogging I’ve found that readers really respond well to when you approach your blogging in a more personal way.
Some of the ways you can add a personal touch to your blog include writing in the first person, blogging with emotion, sharing stories using humor, talking about real life activities, using bylines, featuring video and images, being honest about your mistakes and failings, taking personal notice of readers and blogging with a conversational voice.
When you do these types of things over the long haul readers get to a stage where they feel that they ‘know’ you and a blog becomes more than just a place where you dispense information and it becomes a place where people begin to connect.
I’d love to hear how you add a personal touch to your blog in comments below.
123 Responses to “How to Make Your Blog More Personal” - Add Yours
Sarah- Waking Sophie
July 25th, 2008 5:04 am
I agree that I am drawn to very personal blogs. My writing is very personal because it is a very personal subject, but I am always wondering where to draw the line about what I make public.
Talk Binary
July 25th, 2008 5:07 am
I’ve tried adding a personal touch to my technology blog by recently putting up pictures of the gadgets I purchase. I’ve been wanting to put up videos and have been saving up to buy a Flip Mino! Until then I’ll keep taking pictures. =)
But I believe a certain spice of personal in a blog livens things up!
writer dad
July 25th, 2008 5:20 am
My favorite blogs are the ones that are personal. The computer distances us enough as it is. It’s nice to see genuine emotion. I just started, but as of right now, I don’t know how to do it any other way.
Kari
July 25th, 2008 5:22 am
Henri is a sight for sore eyes! What a handsome little guy. I know it’s not possible when a blog has a large audience, but when I have time I try to personally respond to comments if questions were asked.
I’m actually in the process of moving away from personal a bit. I’m just making it a bit more public friendly so if my boss, mother or whoever read it I wouldn’t have any problems as a result. Still though it is not completely professional either.
Grant
July 25th, 2008 5:23 am
Great post, and a cute kid.
I’m glad to see your back to making videos, I’m soon to jump on this band wagon for my new tech blog. I feel you got it spot on.
I dont post personal posts, but i have twitter and plurk etc.. for my readers to connect with me on a personal level. I feel that on the blog i try to be more professional, but that may change as I’m still trying to find my own style in blogging.
Authentic_AlexG
July 25th, 2008 5:23 am
As a blogger who just starting out one of my latests posts was exactly what you described. Valueable yet personal. I found that I had the most fun and interest in writting that way.
Thank you for sharing.
Shanel Yang
July 25th, 2008 5:28 am
Hi, Darren! What a great topic! I mostly share my personal, often tragic, stories from my youth. My readers seem to find these posts the most interesting — such as the time that I was bullied by an entire school which finally forced me to become an extrovert (at least on the outside). In “How to Be an Extrovert” at http://shanelyang.com/2008/06/20/how-to-be-an-extrovert/ readers seem to connect more with my personal story than with the tips on how to be an extrovert. Although the story was difficult (and in many ways embarrassing) for me to tell, I thought it might help other painfully shy introverts (as opposed to the non-shy introverts — which there are plenty of as well) overcome some of their problems. The amazing reaction I received from that post has given me the courage to share more equally difficult stories from my past, which I’m now exploring in my 30-day “All About You!” series.
That brings me to my second most important way to make my blog more personal, I have invited all my readers to participate with me on a 30-day journey of exploring their past, too, along with me as I revisit mine, to end up knowing the answers to the following 3 critical questions: (1) Who are you? (2) What do you want? and (3) How do you get there from here? The series starts at http://shanelyang.com/2008/07/18/all-about-you/
I got the idea for this while I was doing my fasting log and noticed that readers enjoyed following along on a series, watching the drama unfold, if you will. Then, I thought it would be great to do a similar project with the readers as participants (even if they never share their results with me). Anyway, it should be exciting! We’re on Day 2 and I’ve had a great response so far!
Tim
July 25th, 2008 5:31 am
Occasionally I share a humorous story about my daughters. To date, one of my most popular posts is a scanned note written by my 6-yr old to God. Quite funny.
John Young | We Have Contact
July 25th, 2008 5:32 am
I’m trying to find that fine line between being too personal and not being intimate enough.
I find that writing in a personal fashion is more rewarding, but I also realize that online diaries aren’t usually what people are coming to the site for. If a post gives the reader a feeling of friendly conversation while still making a point and offering something useful, I’m satisfied.
Thomas Flight
July 25th, 2008 5:39 am
You’ll either be totally professional like sites such as Engadget or you can be transparent and personal.
Professionalism scales better, personal seems to have very engaged readers.
CrazyKinux
July 25th, 2008 5:41 am
Being more personal in your blogging means that your readers will develop a better connection with you. Your building a stronger brand, one where you’re more easily able to share the values you represent.
Oh and by the way, Henri is adorable! Congrats to you and your better-half!
CK
dandellion Kimban
July 25th, 2008 5:50 am
having Henry in the video is going personal on the blog. However, maybe it wasn’t the best idea to go. Video started and I (and I can bet I am not the only one) was all like: “Awwwww he’s soooo cute!”, and what Darren has to say went to the third plane. :)
Rebellious Arab Girl
July 25th, 2008 5:51 am
Your son stole the show! I just kept staring at him cuz he is so cute. He kept looking at you then at the camera. So cute! He is a celebrity now! :)
As for being personal. I usually write using “you” a lot and asking questions. It gives the reader something to think about and participate in.
Adam
July 25th, 2008 6:08 am
I try to keep it mildly personal in the actual post and then I’m totally personal in the comments. If someone asks about experiences I’ve had I’ll answer it in the comment section.
Katie
July 25th, 2008 6:14 am
Oh well isn’t Henri just delightful? What a cutie! Congrats Darren. I try not to get too personal in the actual posts on my blog. I try to stear clear of first person narrative or using stories to examplify… sometimes that is difficult as it seems far more natural to want to talk about yourself a little… but I find that keeping the personal part of me in my response to comments etc has been working quite well… This is still something I’m considering though – doing up a proper “About the Author” page and sharing more of myself. Your post has me thinking – about reader/writer connection etc.
Brandon
July 25th, 2008 6:18 am
Congrats on the little one he is definitely a cutie. Great post as well. Thanks for the tips
Green & Clean Mom Sommer
July 25th, 2008 6:19 am
Hey my son’s name is Henry too! But spelled differently. You were cool before this but now you posted this adorable daddy video and I like your sons name. I might be in love! LOL! Great post.
uselessonline
July 25th, 2008 6:21 am
What a lovely little boy!
Farah
July 25th, 2008 6:23 am
Seriously I started to see the video because of your son. He is such a cutie!
About being personal, I always try to tell a story about myself whenever possible. Although, my blog is really about my life, there are some posts a bit informative. And I tried to include the thought behind writing it.
The “you’ part is little hard for me right now. There are few people who leave comments. And sometimes I am not sure if anyone is enjoying any post. So I have a question here, If your blog is a personal piece, how do you ensure you’ll get feedback/participation from readers? (because you know it’s about your life and stuff…so people might think the don’t have anything to say.)
Small Axe
July 25th, 2008 6:27 am
The personal touch on a blog tells me that real people who are most probably very passionate are at work. While quality content is required to keep my attention, the personal touch can get me in the door and get me back again.
Congrats on your new little champion. He’s clearly got a dad who dotes on him. Well done man.
Debbie
July 25th, 2008 6:30 am
I’ve found that people are more willing to listen to you when they know that you care. I’ve been learning to be more open and share some of my own personal experiences and lessons learned on my blog. I appreciate your willingness to share from your heart. Your little baby Henri is adorable!!!!
Lance
July 25th, 2008 6:32 am
I totally agree with this. My favorite blogs are where I know the authors and get their stories along with the information that they’re presenting. The most common way to do this is to simply write about your experience in the context of your niche. So, for example, if you’re doing a personal finance blog, you write about your experience with a particular bank. This brings the reader closer to the material.
My primary niche is dating advice and I always mix in personal dating stories as examples, so my readership really gets a sense of who Lance is and what my values are. I’ve just started a green trends blog with some friends, and I’ll be doing the same thing, blogging with my distinct voice and adding a personal touch to the posts so that the audience can identify and relate to me.
Andrew
July 25th, 2008 6:32 am
This part of blogging looks very obvious, yet some times overlooked by bloggers (like I do). Just from scanning your post, we can already pick up some pointers in blogging.
There’s no doubt he is your son. Even the ‘do is identical. :-) Just kidding mate. More power to your blog.
L-Jay
July 25th, 2008 6:37 am
Sometimes you get personal on blogs coz life ‘just happens’. I’ve just started my video dance lesson blog and have just found out I’m pregnant (which is fantastic!) I won’t be able to keep this a secret from my viewers (and I don’t want to have to wait nine months to make another video post). So I guess everyone is just going to have to watch my tummy get fatter and fatter as I teach them dance…lol.
Anyway, congrats on your bundle.
Yongho Shin
July 25th, 2008 6:45 am
The video is no longer available! :(
Ed Shaz/ NextInstinct
July 25th, 2008 6:45 am
It hasn’t been five weeks! Wow!
Darren, dad to dad, trust me, absorb, video, journal, Enjoy!
I know Henri isn’t your first, but days spin by, and in ten years your memory will not be as sharp is it seems now.
Great case of teaching by example.
Well done mate.
(And you made me ache for the days me boys fit to my chest)
Yongho Shin
July 25th, 2008 6:45 am
Ah, never mind, my browser must have bugged out.
Sean D'Souza
July 25th, 2008 6:47 am
Our blog doesn’t have any kind of personal information.
Which of course, would defeat the point of this post, right? But give me a second. Our blog (unlike most blogs) is tied to the website. So it’s an extension of the website.
So when the person is looking for something About Us, here’s what they find:
1) A very unusual photo of me balancing on one leg.
2) Several additional photos of people we’ve met, our travels etc.
3) Links to New Zealand (where we live) and luscious photos.
4) Recipes to some really cool Indian food.
Of course there are contact details, media photos, etc. But it’s those four factors up there that cause people to connect with us. In fact, we’ve had clients who’ve signed up to a course, because they said–and I quote: “You were having so much fun, that we wanted so much to be like you.”
This factor of personality is what I see hidden on most websites. Most people are plainly stupid. You go to their websites, and see nothing but an About Us page that’s impersonal.
And that’s a waste of space.
Being personal is critical. We are humans and we want to deal with humans. Not having a human element on your website/blog is a mistake.
Sean.
http://www.psychotactics.com
Cassie
July 25th, 2008 7:04 am
This is something I’ve been doing right from the beginning, or trying to anyway. I think it helps your readers become more loyal because they feel more of a personal connection with you. I also find that I am more loyal to the blogs who do the same thing. I like the information they provide, but I also like to hear the personal side of things to help me get to know them better and understand more about where they’re coming from.
Now after seeing this video I want to have another baby! I miss cuddling with them like that. What an adorable little cutie patootie Henri is :)
Anna Bright
July 25th, 2008 7:07 am
I try and strike a balance by being just personal enough. I make lots of effort to make my readers feel involved and valued. As well as offering advice I also ask for it. I show of the things I have made when they are good as inspiration for others, but I also show the mistakes I make so as not to appear like there’s nothing for me to learn. I also have recommendations about other blogger’s posts on my sidebar for people to go and look at.
JK Swopes
July 25th, 2008 7:07 am
I agree, this is something I have been doing from the beginning. I never really thought about it, but, to me, that’s the reason people read blogs.
Blog are naturally more personally than a regular website, and people come there expecting to get to know the person behind it.
How you write, the things you write, and how you engage your readers are all important. I definitely think this is important.
Ann - One Bag Nation
July 25th, 2008 7:23 am
I would say my blog is almost 100% personal!
I’ve shown “before and after” photos, talked about my victories and defeats, and been very open about my struggle to bring some order to my life.
This is deliberate on my part, and was inspired by the feeling that many professional organizers don’t understand the pain of being chronically disorganized! Though to be fair, I think that’s changing some.
What I have much less of is the “tips and tricks” type of post, which seem to be the hallmark of many successful blogs.
Profitopia.net
July 25th, 2008 7:32 am
My sites a work in progress and appreciate your advice, thanks.
http://www.profitopia.net
The Adventurist
July 25th, 2008 7:52 am
I do notice a bigger response when I put up a more personal post. I have tried to make this a bigger part of my blog lately and really try to reach out and grab people in.
Thanks for the nice post and congrats on the new addition!
Jason A. Hendricks
Recruiting Director
Skinny Moose Media
Rhys - Retro Garden
July 25th, 2008 7:56 am
My blog is also personal, so I can’t really talk.
However, I have found that probably the best way to connect with bloggers on a personal level is through social networking such as plurk or twitter.
In the last few days you’ve posted on your plurk feed that you were having problems with your zip on your jeans and you were having a pizza night with pale ale. That’s pretty personal. Whilst you haven’t diluted this site with this information, for a twitter/plurk feed, it’s perfect, because those are all about connecting with people, and you cannot provide much information in 140 without saying “look at this!” and providing a URL.
But, truth be told, I read & responded to both those plurks, because I felt I knew you better. You were human, with human problems and pleasures, rather than just some faceless A-Lister.
I do connect quite well on twitter/plurk as well, because I keep posts on there relating to my football/other interests, rather than hawking my blog, so people with the same interests, that I follow and follow me, who have similar interests, get in touch.
Great post :)
Troy Peterson
July 25th, 2008 7:57 am
I’m a father of two little girls and started Addoursearch.com while my youngest was born. So, I love that you’re showing your son… it really hits home.
I personalize my blog in two different ways:
First, there is using personal experiences when reviewing a site and why I find it useful.
Second, I update Twitter with both personal things about my life, but also with my blog posts and business.
For example, this weekend… I had a blog post about a site I reviewed, then updated the same twitter account a few hours later while I was at the beach with my girls. It was the first time they had been down to Lake Superior, so they were fascinated by the waves… it was adorable.
Funny thing is, I have two twitter accounts twitter.com/addoursearch and twitter.com/tpeterson
I get far more traffic to my blog from my personal twitter account (tpeterson) than my business only (addoursearch)
ps. You’ve got the daddy rock… Do you find yourself doing that even when you’re not holding Henry? All my coworkers noticed when I was in the office. It’s a fond memory. :)
Chris
July 25th, 2008 8:32 am
One of the very best things you can ever do (if it’s possible) is to hold a real life event that people can attend. Having held a couple of events people are asking us when the next one will be. Only a very tiny percentage of readers will be able to attend but simply that they were invited goes a long way to personally connect with them.
Posting video/pictures after the event is great for letting those that couldn’t attend see the faces behind the blog and for those that did attend see themselves as a real part of the blog.
One of my favourite posts is still the video of our blogs 1st birthday party (http://www.tamebay.com/2007/11/move-over-scorsese.html)
If you get the chance to host an event I highly recommend it.
ElegantCelebBlogger
July 25th, 2008 8:35 am
Thanks for sharing a video of your baby. He is so cute (and attracting a lot of attention to your post, I’m sure).
But about this post—aaack! I do try to personalize my blog posts by adding a little of my personal style, tastes and opinions, but it has been difficult for me, mostly because of my upbringing, probably. To be honest, I grew up in a home where I was encouraged not to share personal information about my family and life with people, and also where my opinions and feelings were not really encouraged or welcomed, so I often wonder why anyone would want to know what I think, anyway, and I am often hesitant to speak my mind, even over the internet. I have gotten bolder over the past year and am more confident about expressing myself personally, but it is not natural for me, even though I realize that this is what readers want.
Is it possible to be a successful but mysterious blogger? I would imagine that some bloggers, due to the sensitive nature of their blog topics would not want to share any personal info except maybe their emotions about that topic.
Lisa
July 25th, 2008 9:10 am
This was a timely thing for me to read. I was just thinking that what Jeff and I do with our site is becoming quite clinical now, and 8 months into the website and 1,000 subscribers later, we still don’t have an About page. Hah. It’s just that I come from a good eight years of personal blogging and I think I’ve been subconsciously trying to put as much distance between that (personal blogging) and myself.
Henri is ADORABLE, by the way.
TechSlice
July 25th, 2008 9:19 am
Cute baby. Adding a personal touch is definitely a must to separate yourself from the other million bloggers online.
Frugal Dad
July 25th, 2008 10:52 am
I’ve made it a point to try to write in much the same way that I talk–as if I was having a conversation with my readers. Some writers have a way of talking over, or down to, their readers and I personally find that to be a turn off. Set out with a goal to connect with people, not prove how expansive your vocabulary is.
By the way, Henri is adorable–what a blessing!
Naldz
July 25th, 2008 12:02 pm
tnx for the tips darren!!!:)
Now im applying the method on your video in my site.
heres my latest post using first person which is me and having contact on the reader.
http://naldzgraphics.com/tutorials/photoshop-tutorial-on-how-to-make-simple-3d-box/
hi to you cute Henri:)Hope ul be as good as your father. Hope you understand what im saying now.lol
Jess
July 25th, 2008 12:16 pm
great post. Thanks! This is something I really need to work on. In general, though I write in the first person and I always like to add a bit of humour. I think more and more lately though I am revealing a bit more about my own life…little anecdotes here and there…
Thanks again, and Henri is a great name.
jess
Neil Duckett
July 25th, 2008 1:29 pm
My posts that include photos with me or friends in them get the best traffic over time. Totally agree with a personal touch, hence why my comments are up over 20 per post these days … well most anyway. Occasionally i do cover what i ate last night too ….. living in Japan the food is a very interesting topic for many.
Good luck with the new born too.
rjleaman
July 25th, 2008 1:56 pm
Personal stories, in moderation, are perfectly appropriate and even necessary on a personal blog — or a blog in a niche that addresses home- and lifestyle-based topics. It is much more difficult to find the right tone for a business or technology blog, or indeed any blog where readers are seeking solutions more than entertainment.
The blogs I enjoy reading the most in that area, and those where I feel most connected to the blogger – and yes, we do seek to make human connections, even in reading online – are those that have a bit of a conversational tone. It’s like a knowledgeable friend who shares his own experiences and discoveries and techniques. What could be better?
And why should we, as bloggers, be concerned about making a personal connection with our readers? Simply put, it is human nature to feel *invested* to a greater extent in the success of a blogger with whom the reader can feel a connection.
Where that human connection can be established, there will inevitably follow the RSS subscriptions, the comments, the social bookmarking, the word-of-mouth recommendations, the purchases or clients – whatever the ultimate promotional or business goal might need. And besides, isn’t it just much more fun to be able to feel that we’re writing for people who have more than a passing casual interest in our opinions? :-)
Lightening
July 25th, 2008 6:10 pm
Putting a video with your baby on the blog is going to get me in every time! :)
LOVED the way you used music at the start and end of the video too. Very effective.
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July 25th, 2008 6:26 pm
Congrats Darren, the baby is adorable!!!
This is so true, you can instantly “feel” a blogger when you enter their blog, and many times there is no connection there to the human person behind the blog, personalization is so important in making an emotional connection to your readers.
Thanks,
JR
Ryan @ Smarter Wealth
July 25th, 2008 7:46 pm
I try to make my wealth blog as personal as possible with photos, videos and personal stories. Thanks for the tips
Kitty Cheng
July 25th, 2008 8:46 pm
Congrats D & V, Henri is such a lovely boy! He is very photogenic too :)
Alexandra Popovic
July 25th, 2008 9:02 pm
Congrats Darren – darling Henry has the makings of a real star! I eagerly await your next vid where we get to see you change his nappy, burp and give him a bath. Now THAT’S personal!! ;))
It is high time to leave traditional marketing hype beyind and GET PERSONAL when it comes to fun and business. I truly believe that’s the only way to make a positive, lasting and worthwhile impression others will want to connect with. ;)
Alan is Gay and Straight
July 25th, 2008 9:52 pm
I wanted to have original content so I just decided to tell my own personal unique story that only I can tell.
I was also thinking of doing a video to let people get to know me a little better. With a video though, it definitely has to be an upbeat, positive, even a humourous post.
Jennifer Griola
July 25th, 2008 10:31 pm
Ah! You’ve had your baby–he is quite fetching! Darren, I attended your Six Figure Blogging course and this was very helpful then when my blog was weeks old and everyone around me was telling me that I was being ‘too personal’ and needed to be more stoic. It felt natural to me to be personable and share things about my life, so I was conflicted. The guidance from the course assured me I was going in the right direction, and while I have a very minute following I do now have a following. The feedback have received from new readers is consistently that they love “my voice”–so I must be on the right track (of course there are probably people who *hate* my voice, but then again we probably wouldn’t have been friends anyway…). Thanks for the post and for the guidance in the course.
Cheers!
Jennifer Griola, I’ve lost 90 lbs and counting…
http://www.lost100.com
Evelyn Lim
July 25th, 2008 11:04 pm
It’s a nice touch that you are adding Henri. You’ve just illustrated how to make a blog more personal.
On my self help site, I often like to share my failings and mistakes. My intent is to show that I’ve overcome a lot of my limiting thoughts to be where I am today. Hopefully, reading my personal experiences can help inspire my readers to take concrete actions for change.
I like the idea about sharing funny stories and all. I hope to do more of these going forward!
Thanks for sharing,
Evelyn
Kevin W
July 26th, 2008 2:32 am
Hmmm. Good Points. I will take some into consideration. I do need some more personal interest in my website. Thanks again!
Corinne Edwards
July 26th, 2008 5:40 am
Been waiting for some news on our new baby.
How is he doing? His mom? You?
Get personal. Give us some pictures!
Keith
July 26th, 2008 6:20 am
Great article. I know that I stay on a blog 10x longer when the posts are more personal.
I’ve got a pretty short attention span so videos and humor seem to work the best on me.
Felicia
July 26th, 2008 7:07 am
Interesting to see your video and post. You’re absolutely right about becoming more personal in a blog.
I recently switched my blog from a website. When it was a website, I felt compelled to write in the third person (boring and stiff). Since switching to the blog format, I write in the first and second person. Not only is it more inviting to readers, it’s a heck of a lot easier to write posts. They just seem to flow naturally.
I wish you the best with your new adorable little bundle of joy!
Gaivn Smith
July 26th, 2008 7:25 am
The point at which you have gone to personal is very foggy. There can be severe ramifications for making your blog to personal.
Personally, I try to avoid it!
Taryn Merrick
July 26th, 2008 8:05 am
I try to get personal by giving my readers glimpses of my passions and interests, some of which are allied with my Virtual Assistant business and some of which are not. I try to attract a certain niche in my clientele, so this is part of my strategy to do so.
Your video was very charming, you have a gorgeous little baby, and your sweet and genuine spirit was obvious.
Nick Stamoulis
July 26th, 2008 8:42 am
Congrats on your baby – he’s adorable! Video blogging with a baby in hand is definitely the most personal you can get! :)
Cathy | Mommy Motivation
July 26th, 2008 9:05 am
Hi Darren et al,
I rarely take the time to watch the videos, although I read the summaries and get tons of good information. BUT with a baby on the preview, how can I NOT? :) He’s a cutie. Congrats.
And of course, teh information is always fresh and informative. thank you very much for this blog in particular.
Angel Cuala
July 26th, 2008 9:25 am
Cute little Henry! Can my wife apply for a nanny?
Anyway, I think personalizing your blog depends on your blog topic. My first blog is about Family Tips and I am not a professional family adviser. But since I am a family man for over 12 years, I can easily convince my readers that my tips effective because I have proven it.
I have two children only and have no plan of adding more. Therefore, I have the authority or experience to understand why it is important to plan your family, and my readers love me that way. I always try to start my articles with my own story, instead of sounding like a genius.
If you like masses to read your blog, put a personal touch.
Ribeezie
July 26th, 2008 10:19 am
I find that humor is always a great way to “break the ice” so-to-speak and connect with people. I think that when you write any type of blog whether it be personal development, social media marketing, or an industry blog, it’s always good to show a sense a humor… To me it says, “hey guys, let’s have fun with this too and relax a little.”
Alex Costa - minimizeme.tv
July 26th, 2008 12:11 pm
When I read a blog I always want to know the point of view of the owner, even dough sometimes I don’t agree with him/her it’s interesting and you get to know that person a little bit more. In my case my blog is totally personal because it’s about my journey on weight loss.
I really appreciate yours suggestions because I’m going to adopt some of them and I really think that this will make a difference.
Whonami
July 26th, 2008 12:23 pm
Hi,
I think that it is a good idea to follow this way (more personal way). We are all interesting to see on the net personal stories.
Some years ago, during Paris Hilton scandal. I did a search in WordTracker and the top keyword at that time is “paris hilton”
Thanks for sahring idea.
Manjula
July 26th, 2008 7:56 pm
Hi The tag line for my blog is “Tidbits from my personal and professional life”. And I started this blog to share my feelings, thoughts and to keep in touch with my family and friends. And believe me, the response I get from my family and friends is tremendous. They feel comfortable to share their bits with me. And personally for me, blogging is fun, therapeutic and gives me a high.
Kirk Warren
July 27th, 2008 2:43 pm
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“I’d love to hear how you add a personal touch to your blog in comments below.”
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I’ve found throwing out something as simple as this at the end of a post every once ina while can lead to a nice boost in reader participation. If you do it on every post, it comes off as begging for comments based on my experiences, but it’s definitely one of the most powerful and simple ways to get people to comment and it’s also painfully obvious – just asking them to do it.
BrilliantJeni
July 27th, 2008 8:59 pm
CONGRATULATIONS!
Great post for numerous reasons. I found it incredibly helpful since writing about myself and letting my personality come out in my writing has been a real challenge for me. Darren, you always make it look so easy!
Welcome to the world, Henry Rowse.
Billy Akerman
July 28th, 2008 4:20 am
Thanks for the insight for successful blogging. My site is only a couple of months old and because of it’s niche, I try to be non-personal in content. I am a very humorous person and enjoy a good laugh. When posting about the stock market it’s a subject that most people are serious about and typically are stressed from. recently I’ve posted some more personal views and I hope it will pay off in the long run. I love investing in the stock market and want to share what I’ve learned. I guess if it was personal(not too much) it would help in attracting more traffic. Thanks again.
BTW. your boy is cute. Congratulation.
Simon Stapleton
July 28th, 2008 4:52 am
I started to take this approach recently, with great results. When you read a blog that is personalized it’s much easier to connect with the author and establish trust. So you’re spot on with this article – thanks.
Great stuff Darren.
Ray C. Parrish
July 28th, 2008 7:36 am
Well, I did the most personal post to date. Not one comments. I’ll have to try something different.
pixelultra
July 28th, 2008 9:10 am
I think it is all about balance. Some blocks state a lot of opinions which could be construed as personal, but they say nothing at all. I have blogs for more personal info and blogs more related to business related material.
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Michael Aulia
July 28th, 2008 1:20 pm
Well I never pay attention to make my blog more personal.
However, most of my posts affect me in some ways. If it’s about a techology review, I usually have used it first before reviewing it, so there will be personal touches automatically.
If it’s about a news, I usually say something about it (my own opinion) so not to make the post a boring one
Darin Blue
July 28th, 2008 4:24 pm
Great article!
It really is all about connecting with people on a personal level and building a relationship. That is why blogging has been so great and is so much better than straight one-way informational web pages. It allows people to relate to your opinions and connect.
I think that’s why on most successful blogs such as my own (Internet Marketing Techniques and Darren’s you see the creators images and personal profiles as a focus and centerpiece of the blog.
People want to know who is talking to them and learn more about you. I’ve never known anyone in life who wanted direction or information from an arbitrary and impersonal source. It’s all about personal branding.
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July 29th, 2008 4:33 am
Your son is adorable! :)
I agree with making your blog personal – no one wants to read a dry, dull blog. I try to incorporate funny stories as much as possible to make my blog interesting.
Ilaarijs
July 29th, 2008 11:45 am
Exactly what I am doing – my blog is only about me and my adventures. Places, where I have been, and humans I have met. So it’s very personal.
p.s. I am squirrel.
RD
July 29th, 2008 1:34 pm
Agree 100%, if you can’t connect with your audience you are screwed!
RD
http://blogpowers.com
Christopher
July 29th, 2008 3:01 pm
I agree fully. I love to read blogs that are personal. I think its the allure of intimacy that makes a blog really good. It also makes me realize how we are all so very much alike.
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Martin
July 29th, 2008 8:32 pm
That’s a very helpful post about making your blog personal, thanks!
I think placing some pictures of yourself or your activities may help personalize your blog. It will let readers know that your a person and not a ‘bot.’ :)
Noobpreneur
July 30th, 2008 2:29 am
Darren,
Excellent tips! Blogs are personal and should be approached with personal touches.
Thanks for the great post!
BarkingDogShoes
July 30th, 2008 2:14 pm
Hi Darren,
Thanks for affirming the importance of showing a bit of personality in a blog while remaining professional. I author a blog about comfortable yet stylish shoes for women. While I still use stock photo, I’ve started photographing my own feet in a pair of shoes (thankfully companies have been kind enough to send me samples). My readers seem to appreciate the personal and authentic touch.
Cosmixxx
July 30th, 2008 11:54 pm
Great post, I really enjoyed this, and nice vid!
Sharon Sarmiento
July 31st, 2008 2:05 am
Awwww, I thought I accidentally went to Cute Overload ;-). What an adorable baby boy!
This video had a personal touch starting from the first second, with the music–I heard the music and it pulled on my heart strings and made me lean into what you were saying. It’s amazing all the little touches you can do to make a personal connection–sometimes it’s as simple as well chosen music or even an expressive photo to use along with your posts.
Thank you! :-)
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July 31st, 2008 7:52 am
Cute kid. ALMOST as cute as my grandson ( 13 months old.)
I am still learning this personal writing stuff but it certainly is a welcome relief from the dry impersonal article writing which we have to do.
David
claire@GUGAW
July 31st, 2008 11:04 am
absolutely – i love feeling that i’m getting a peek into what people love, loathe and generally get up to in their everydayness……
i try to do this by including little snippets of my life and day to day experiences, as well as the things i love and the things i make (the primary purpose of my blog). important not to give too much stalkerish material though!
abhishek
July 31st, 2008 10:48 pm
Sorry, but this time i was looking Henri all the time, but i have downloaded the video will watch it again.
Jordan
August 1st, 2008 1:36 am
Thanks for the tips on making blogging more personal. After reading it, I decided to put up the first “vlog” on my site, and although I feel sort of dorky about it, I think it’s a step towards letting the readers get a better feel for my personality, since i don’t write a “personal blog”, per se. Thanks for the informative blog…and your baby is gorgeous!
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August 1st, 2008 5:11 am
Nice video, although if you look at this way personality is the name of the game.
According to a recent survey, personal blogs are getting the most readership and after them you can have blogs related to friends or family.
So, making our blogs more personal helps us a lot in the long run.
jules
August 1st, 2008 7:34 am
Interesting post, I have made my blog personal and used some home video to boost it, it seemed a natural thing to do as I focus on a camcorder brand.
John
August 1st, 2008 8:18 am
I hate reading blogs that have no “soul”
StocksHaven dot Com
August 2nd, 2008 1:36 am
Thats exactly what I’ve tried to do. There are so many websites on investing that speak the same old language… so I’m trying to write articles that add a twist. I write posts on the top funniest stock symbols, and have recently partnered with another writer who focuses on humour.
Great job Darren.
Gadget
August 2nd, 2008 3:26 am
Great tip, I will be doing this on my blog in the future.
Money Online
August 2nd, 2008 10:50 am
Personalizing your blog is key. You really hit the nail on the head here. Props on the baby in the video, excellent touch. You really practice what you preach.
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August 2nd, 2008 5:53 pm
Nice tips. Will try implementing in my blog. It’s always worth coming here where new ideas are shared.
Moira
August 3rd, 2008 5:11 am
I know I like reading blogs that have a “face” and a personality. It is an extension of the habit I have of looking at the author’s photo when I consider buying a book.
On my blod, Dog Art Today, I interlace my posts about art with stories about my dog and I feature stories about the breeds I know my readers own. Often I dedicate posts to them and their dogs. I think it makes a big difference.
BTW, featuring Henri is a great way to make an impact. So cute!!!
Moira
August 3rd, 2008 5:11 am
I know I like reading blogs that have a “face” and a personality. It is an extension of the habit I have of looking at the author’s photo when I consider buying a book.
On my blog, Dog Art Today, I interlace my posts about art with stories about my dog and I feature stories about the breeds I know my readers own. Often I dedicate posts to them and their dogs. I think it makes a big difference.
BTW, featuring Henri is a great way to make an impact. So cute!!!
FitMom
August 3rd, 2008 1:20 pm
Love the video. Totally agree with you. Don’t have the confidence yet, but, maybe in the future.
himesh
August 3rd, 2008 11:17 pm
I like it
but have a doubt what is the evidence that personal blogs get me more traffic and how would i make my blog to come up on yahoo or google searches i guess it will work only if i make it over something that people search alot online.thats why i made a makemoney blog and i am really new to blogging.so i dont think it would be a good idea to make a personal blog.
David Rader
August 3rd, 2008 11:17 pm
I share my personal struggles with people. Not just readers of my blog though, but people who search on the internet for experience of someone going through or who has gone through the same thing.
Andy
August 4th, 2008 12:05 am
I’ve found that making things personal in my blog has really helped people to understand where I’m coming from. My blog is all about helping musicians avoid the mistakes of the music bizz, and I tell them about mistakes that I’ve made or that I’ve witnessed other local bands make.
Mattheosis
August 4th, 2008 10:47 am
Darren, thank you for posting this article. This was very insightful. Apparently, becoming more personal in your blog has done reverse of what some of your critics have said. I will follow-up on you other links.
Regards, Matt
Tim
August 6th, 2008 2:20 am
I think making things more personal is a great way to get your reader to connect with you as well.
Berry
August 6th, 2008 2:11 pm
Hi, I agree with you Darren, we have to include our personal emotion in writing, so the article has a bit taste not just a dead thing.
Nards
August 6th, 2008 2:40 pm
The personal aspect of my blog seems to be the big “draw” for mine. The reader becomes part of my story during my ride through life; and I am part of theirs. I try to keep it “cozy” and it seems to be appreciated. It is genuine and I get back what I give – Nards
abdul
August 6th, 2008 7:34 pm
Really nice post..
i completely agree with you Darren….
Personal emotions must….:)
Lonneke
August 7th, 2008 11:21 am
First of all: Congratz with your son Henri! A cute little boy :D
now on topic ;-)
My opinion is that when you write in a personal way that it reads more comfortable/ it is pretty to read.
And I think its also a way to put your passion in your articles that you are sharing with your readers.
I love to give some personal touch in posts.
greetings from Holland.
FaridSulaiman.com
August 8th, 2008 9:50 am
Wow! What a great tips, I’m still new in doing blog. Now I should search back my videocam (or some call commcoder, sorry for my English)
Henry Griner
August 9th, 2008 12:23 am
Wow Darren. I didn’t think anyone was naming children after me any more. ;-) Even if you did spell his name different. I have not met any “little” Henrys around my part of the world for years. You’re got a wonderful little gift from God there.
Using video to make blogs more personal is a great tool and, using the language key terms that you shared are great to draw folks in.
I just added you to my list of those I’m following on Twitter along with keeping up with you here. Hope we can meet up along the way some day.
Henry Griner
http://whoishenry.com
Hey… whoishenri is still available. ;-) Give him his own blog and start the mentoring early.
green blog
August 9th, 2008 1:58 am
Well I always believe it all matters as to how you write to get readers’ attention. It may not be that hard because all you have to do is to introduce the responsive tone in order to try and get the message across.
Her Ticking Clock
August 9th, 2008 3:49 pm
You are right. I never like reading a blog that is simply entertaining or just informative. I always want that touch. My site right now isn’t as personal as we would like, but that will change soon with some personal stories. Take care.
HoomanCan
August 9th, 2008 4:00 pm
Congratulations on your baby. My two kids are my inspiration.
How To Win Friends & Influence People is one of my favorite books of all time.
Father Forgets is the story about the father and his son. It is just moving. If you haven’t read it http://hoomancan.com/blog/?p=10
Stephen Lee
August 10th, 2008 1:13 am
Absolutely, Darren – I can’t agree with you more on this. Blogging is Personal – it’s your perspective about a particular topic of choice – and, of course it’s your winning ways of doing things that pique the interests of your intended audience. A lot of bloggers fail to recognize this – they keep re-hashing a popular topic to death, and I find that to be terminally boring.
John Sullivan
August 10th, 2008 8:45 am
Dear Darren
Sorry I’m catching this late.I was just trying to show and explain to my wife the Blogger and kind of site that I’m trying to mimic. Being a real person and not scamming their readers with scam stuff.And most important to me and which I watch you do constantly,always look out for the new guy.Your an excellent role model for a new blogger in every element of the craft.
Congrats on the family and to your continued success.
A true FAN for life.
PS I emailed you one time and you got right back to me and that’s relevant to this topic cause that one move had me in your corner forever.
Peace
Thanks
Yvette
August 10th, 2008 11:43 am
hello,
I’m a total newbie but would like to blog because I love writing. Can you refer me to a site that will educate me on how to start one. I am 41, single mother, dating, been rejected, struggling to pay bills, raising 2 girls without child support, a sales rep, a philosopher, an immigrant, a beautiful woman, etc, etc. There’s a lot to blog about even if its just a cathartic release so I can finally stop emailing my ex boyfriend lov of my life “as I really talk to myself”.
I also came across the homestead website service. It offeres own website…can one blog from there (only if u know answer). Ok. I’m asking too much from you.
Any response will be appreciated. Yvette
Her Ticking Clock
August 10th, 2008 7:49 pm
Yvette, I can give you some pointers on blogging. Please communicate with us at our website at hertickingclockDOTcom.
Cathy Bendzunas
August 11th, 2008 12:14 pm
Wow, I’m surprised. I’m a new blogger (only a month) & I just naturally already do all those things. I can’t think of any other way to write than to write like I’m talking face to face with friends. I’m such a tech dummie, I’m glad to know that at least I’m doing something right.
Katie
August 12th, 2008 11:44 am
Same with Cathy, I thought that has always been the point to blogging. Back 10 years ago it’s known as an online journal and you just chat about your days, life events, basically nothing anyone would really care about lol Blogging is taken so seriously now it’s a fulltime job.
Ilaarijs
August 12th, 2008 5:43 pm
The best thing, how to make a blog personal, is like I am doing – it’s all about me and my adventures! No “money making” bullshit, no posts about “blogging”, “SEO”, “traffic” etc… just personal stuff. And it’s the only normal way to make blog personal…
Johan
August 14th, 2008 7:40 am
I´m agree whit Darren, I love this blog, excellent tips! Blogs are personal and should be approached with personal touches. It shows the personality of the publisher.
Thanks for the great post!
Corey Geer
August 14th, 2008 9:35 am
Personally, I don’t like getting personal on blogs with so many readers and views because we all know how easily someone can blow something out of proportion or what someone can do with a little bit of black mail information.
There is definitely a fine line drawn between personal and helpful when it comes to your own personal blog. Videos are a nice informative way to keep readers drawn to what you have to say because it’s easier to learn from a video than some plain simple text.
Until next time.
Corey Geer,
http://www.cashgators.com
Dimitri
October 13th, 2008 3:26 pm
On our business blog i am writing not only about business, but also about fun we have and about different members of our team. it is very powerful communication tool to get across who we really are.
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April 11th, 2009 1:47 pm
My favorite blogs are the ones that are personal. The computer distances us enough as it is. It’s nice to see genuine emotion.
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April 11th, 2009 10:48 pm
Personal stories, in moderation, are perfectly appropriate and even necessary on a personal blog — or a blog in a niche that addresses home- and lifestyle-based topics
It’s like a knowledgeable friend who shares his own experiences and discoveries and techniques. What could be better?
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