Comments on: The Wink Wink, Nudge Nudge Method, Or, Blogging Is Flirting

By: Public Flirt dot Com

Public Flirt dot Com — Sat, 18 Oct 2008 22:43:24 +0000

I believe that “flirting” is important in almost all aspects of life. Not the actual flirting itself but the tools and techniques one employs in flirting to get a desired result are traits that are transferable to all communication both verbal and non verbal. If you know how to use these skills with flirting with women you will most surely be successfully in other types of personal communication. To up your flirting IQ check out PublicFlirt.com

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By: Brennan

Brennan — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 21:46:25 +0000

This is some great information. Unfortunately, I suck at flirting in general… we’ll see if I am better at it online!

By: anmari

anmari — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 10:01:17 +0000

Great! love it!These are another helpful tips for your readers.

I learned a lot since I started reading your blog.. Thanks a lot!

By: Reginald

Reginald — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 22:53:27 +0000

This post has a rather unique angle.

It never ceases to amaze me the various yet individual posts that are found on this blog.

By: Sara

Sara — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 16:17:00 +0000

I really enjoyed reading all your comments, everyone. :) And, by the way, a chupa cabre’s exact ingredients are a mystery to me, but a guy friend in college would always order them. They looked and smelled like death – something like jager with a shot of tequila dropped in the glass. BTW, Toblerone, I like your idea to be specific with your question. And Kelvin, I’ll see how much Darren will let me get away with. ;)

By: Amarnath

Amarnath — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 11:24:37 +0000

Somebody said flirting was bad especially when you are married, these are wonderful tips to follow thanks ;)

By: RaSh

RaSh — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 08:55:32 +0000

Hey!
Impressive post indeed! I’ve been reading your blog for a while now. Thanks for guiding us :)

By: Samantha

Samantha — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 01:39:19 +0000

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By: TechSlice

TechSlice — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 23:16:30 +0000

Nice post. It’s an interesting way of looking at it.

By: Ryan McLean

Ryan McLean — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 15:27:25 +0000

Hehe I do love flirting. So the link between bloggin and flirting is a fantastic link for me. Great post and well worth the effort. I love the way you have come at blogging from a completely new angle.
It makes so much sense

By: shea

shea — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 14:40:18 +0000

that is so…………seductive

By: Bryan

Bryan — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 13:44:12 +0000

This story reminds me of a comment I once heard about a local newspaperman . He reportedly said that he’d print the local phone book every week, if he could get away with it. People love to see their name in the paper so much, he goes out of his way to find any story that can highlight a local citizen. It certainly makes sense to give your readers a little love.

By: thePuck

thePuck — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 11:44:31 +0000

Very cute! A great insight into the psychology of blogging and media in general. The art of seduction is all over the place, and this is just another application.

By: Jess

Jess — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 09:54:46 +0000

fun post – but the points have already been made by Darren before in other posts…leaving comments, asking your readers to subsribe and to leave comments. Guess he’s just trying to drum it into our heads.

By the way what’s a chupa cabre?

jess

By: Toblerone @ Simple Mom

Toblerone @ Simple Mom — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 09:36:33 +0000

I’d say one way that works well for me in engaging readers is asking them a question at the end of my post. I don’t make it a generic question, like “What do you think about this?”, I make it specific and direct, like, “Have you ever created a menu plan for a whole month? Did it work? What would be better for you – a weekly plan or a monthly plan?” Things like that.

Also, I interact in the comments section.

By: Sandy Naidu

Sandy Naidu — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 06:43:02 +0000

After reading the post, I have decided to give flirting a serious try..I think offering Prizes/gifts to readers (like by having a special contest), can be on the list too…

By: Thomas Johnson

Thomas Johnson — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 05:20:44 +0000

@ Laura

I definitely agree blogging is a great way to improve communication skills. I also find that I’m better able to share my thoughts with strangers in person because I’ve gotten used to it while blogging.

By: NeverSettle

NeverSettle — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 02:26:22 +0000

This post is fantastic! As a new blogger, I have found quite a few or your posts to be very helpful. Thank you for taking the time and for being a quality researcher/writer!

DSB

By: joe

joe — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 02:01:54 +0000

great post, i wish i could say something good on it but i cant

By: Laura

Laura — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 01:38:14 +0000

I get your point but I’m about as shy as they come so just writing a blog is a serious step forward for me. Leaving comments is real progress. To ask me to flirt is way beyond my capacity at this point. Now if I had tons of readers, that would probably give me the confidence to at least try flirting. Baby steps. But I don’t use my blog to avoid people but rather, I find that I am actually developing better communication skills by blogging. I’m thinking a bit faster on my feet than before. But I have to admit that it would be nice to able to edit some of my past conversations.